For Girls Who Read, Play and Dress Up… and the Mamas Who Love Them

September 11, 2013
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A Disney Princess App Even a Tomboy Can Love

Ok, here’s the thing.  I was the biggest tomboy you can imagine.  Not just literally (although I did stand about a foot taller than the tallest boy in  my preschool class…) but the holes in your toughskins, non-matching garanimals, Star Wars card collecting in a tree kind of tomboy.

And yet.  I had one of those Barbie heads where you can style the hair.  And I loooooooved it.

Cut to the girliest of the girly girls.  My daughter, Bean.  I do not quite know what to do with the swirling collection of girlyness that is her.

This is how she posed for the first day of school today:

And no, I didn’t tell her to stand like that.  I can’t even convincingly stand like that.

So, give this little bedazzling creature an app that lets you pick a Disney Princess, choose a fancy event she is attending, style her hair (yes the app kind of miraculously lets your kid style a cartoon character’s hair as if she is touching it), pick her clothes, the color and fabric of her gown, choose accessories, and then save the photo in an album–and she is in heaven.  The new Disney Princess Royal Salon App (I know, the name makes me want to barf too) does just that.

Bean loves it.

And honestly, I think it’s pretty fun too.

What is most fun, is the seemingly inexhaustible combination of options for creating your character’s look.  You choose if you want to dress Cinderella, Rapunzel, Belle or Ariel.  The characters look pretty much like they did in the movies too–not all grown up and ultra-busty.  Then you can choose from a number of events.  And then the options for fabrics and dresses and hair and accessories just go on and on. And if you’re wondering how you can possibly style an animated character’s hair, I just have to say, trust me.  It’s like the Barbie head times a thousand.  Except that pretty much every choice you make actually looks good. More often than not my poor Barbie head looked like a zombie drag queen.

Look, I am the first person to try to de-princessify my daughter’s life.  I want to keep her young.  I want her to get muddy (and not track it in my apartment…).  I want her building and climbing and racing and singing.  But I know that styling hair has its joys.  And that curiosity about how changing one’s look changes one’s sense of self, is part of growing up.  And fashion design is actually an amazing thing.  And some enchanted storytelling can be wonderful.

So I am happy to see how much Bean enjoys the Disney Princess Royal Salon.  And I am super glad we got to review it.  It sure takes up less space in the apartment than the Barbie Head would.

Thanks to Disney for sending us the Disney Princess Royal Salon to review. As always, all opinions are mine and the Bean’s and you better believe were not influenced by anyone.

This post originally appeared on Babies Gotta Have It.

 

June 13, 2013
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Dirty Toes Call for Fresh Feet

The Bean in Keens

 

I refused to wear sandals for years.  As a teen I became convinced that my feet were hideous and should be hidden from the general public for fear the sight of the space between my toes would cause apoplexy.  And then I guess I came to the realization that really my weird toes were the least of my problems, and it was nice to have cool feet in the summer.  And somewhere around that time they invented Tevas and Keens and this tomboy jumped all over that sport sandal trend.

I am pretty certain that Keens are miracle shoes.  We’ve been passed down Keens for Cate in every color and almost every size.  They go from boat to beach, from mud puddle to spray park–and then you wash them and throw them in the dryer…and they look better than the day you were handed them down.  (I want whatever is in Keens to slather all over my face.)

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June 3, 2013
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The Trouble with Royal Portraiture

Finally.  A Disney princess who looks like me.

Ok, yes.  It was doubtlessly important for Disney to address issues of racial diversity first.  Little girls of color have finally been given princesses who, at least on the big screen, look like them.  And it was definitely time.

And then a princess who looks like me rode into town.  I mean, me me.  Except she has a bow and arrows and I have a big fish and a glove.

Merida from Disney's BraveMe Holding a Big Fish

I am not remotely princessy.  I wear sensible shoes.  I have no idea, really, how to dress myself.  And I’ve always been this way.  And what have I also always been?  A redhead.
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May 20, 2013
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RHAW Strength – I Weigh in on Strong not Skinny

I read this post  last week, which was written by a young woman who after many years of struggling with her body image, made the realization that it’s better to be strong than skinny.  For the writer, it took years of crash dieting, working for a health and fitness company, and finally being forced into the gym in order to do her job to come to this conclusion.  And I’m so glad she did.  I’m even more glad she’s written about it from the point of view of a young and incredibly cool twenty-something.  Thank you Sophie.

So here I am.  A forty-something, decidedly less cool Mama wanting to help guide my daughter toward this realization a decade or so earlier than Sophie…and what I’ve been thinking about since I read Sophie’s post is, how?  How?  How do we help our girls discover for themselves that it’s better to be strong than skinny?
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May 15, 2013
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Peg + Cat – Coming to PBS Kids

Peg + Cat New PBS Series for Preschoolers

 

I think a new PBS Kids series is kind of always a cause for celebration.  But one that is produced by the Fred Rogers Company, stars a spunky little girl and her cat, and teaches early math skills through hilarious adventures?  Maybe that’s cause for a Wednesday morning party!

Peg + Cat, coming in October 2013 to PBS Kids was co-created by folks who previously worked on “The Wonder Pets” and Broadway’s “Rent.” Not a bad pedigree!  It introduces a new heroine for our little girls, Peg, and her sidekick Cat.  The two pals embark upon crazy adventures to such locales as purple planets, Radio City Music Hall and even Romeo and Juliet’s 16th century Verona.  Peg and Cat inevitably end up in a jam and have to use their smarts and some math skills to solve a challenge and save the day.  The show will premiere with a one hour broadcast of two episodes on Monday October 7th, but you can already find Peg and Cat online.  Play some games.  Spend the summer getting to know them.  This is one little gal who I think could become a very good friend.

May 14, 2013
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Little Girls Gotta Go Camping

So we are taking the Bean camping this summer. This will be a new experience for us. Unless you count that awful night in Maine when she was still in a pack and play and screamed so loud in our tent that every moose around the lake started stampeding and I got carsick on the aerobed. But now she’s big and the Adirondacks are calling.

So how do you get your little girl interested in camping? There are some great camping toys out there for girls. Check them out!

Lego Affiliate Link - Amazon Friends Adventure Camper

Look, I’m the first person to say that girls don’t need pink legos.  But this is a cool set.  The Lego Friends Camper includes tons of accessories, cool details, and neat little dolls who apparently barbecue, surf and bicycle. Awesome.

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May 9, 2013
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Fairy Toys for Your Fairy Princess

Fairy Princess

These days, fairies are all the rage. My little fairy princess is smitten with the wee folk, and over the years I’ve caught glimpses of lots of wonderful new fairy toys…moments before they disappeared under toadstools or dissolved into misty dews. If you’re very quiet and don’t make any sudden moves, this post may be visible to you.

Affiliate Link - My Natural good Earth Fairy

Affiliate Link - My Natural Good Earth Fairy on Amazon

Meet the My Natural Good Earth Fairies from MiYim. Made with natural cotton, stuffed with recycled filling, and packaged in a reusable cardboard box…they really are good fairies. These plush dolls are soft, snuggly and adorable.

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May 6, 2013
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Tea Collection – Keepsake Quality Playclothes for Today’s Girl

First Birthday

The Bean’s first birthday. We had a small family party on the porch of a beach house facing the ocean. I chose a little white knit dress with pink trim made by the Tea Collection for the Birthday Girl. I loved it so much. It’s in the box of keepsakes with the dress she wore home from the hospital and a few of my most treasured little snuggly baby clothes.

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May 6, 2013
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Miss California and Music With a Mind of It’s Own

Frances England Mind of My Own

I’m hooked on that new NBC show, “Parenthood.” It’s brilliant. Great characters. Great dialogue. The show is as much about the experience of being adult children as it is about being parents of young children. Anyway, a recent Halloween episode really resonated with me. In the episode, Julia, a ultra-high powered corporate lawyer, was thrown into a tailspin when her only daughter, Sidney, announced she wanted to be Miss California for Halloween. Julia spent the episode explaining how far women have come…detailing the history of the women’s rights movement to her ultra-precocious six year old daughter and reminding her how cute last year’s ladybug costume still is. In the end? Julia dressed as Amelia Earhart for Halloween. And Sidney beamed in her Miss California dress and sash. When my daughter announced she wanted to dress up as a princess this year, I cringed. We compromised on “Fairy” princess. Every time someone asked the Bean, “What are you going to be for Halloween?” she answered, “A princess.” And without a beat I chimed in “What kind of princess?” And Bean dutifully answered, “A Fairy princess.” And I felt better. Continue Reading →

May 6, 2013
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Princesses Are Nice But Soccer Players Rock – Go! Go! Sports Girls Giveaway

Go! Go! Sports Girls

So here’s the dilemma my friend Gretchen faced last night. At one single moment in time her husband was attending a class, her son was playing in a baseball game and on a completely different field, her daughter was playing in a T-ball game. I have heard that Mamas are supposed to be superheroes, but unless someone has really figured out how to bend space and time, there’s pretty much no way that my friend Gretchen can see both of those games at once. Yet, of course, she did. Continue Reading →